If you had a winning lottery ticket in your hands, would you give yourself a pat on the back or go cash the sucker? So why is it when most guys get a woman’s phone number — a free-for-all ticket to fun and sex — they don’t use it? Most dates are confirmed via text, so if you can update Facebook or Twitter about taking a crap, you can send a message to a woman. If you want to guarantee her interest and a lightning-fast reply, here are a few ideas to get you started: Anticipate.I want to beat my head against the wall every time someone thinks “Hey, wat up ;)” is a viable way to start a conversation. If you’re that boring, you deserve to get blown off.

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Maybe she grabbed your arm, her body brushed against yours and you wanted to push her against the wall right then and there.

Let her know…and you’ll probably find out she feels the same. Whenever you can create a “magical moment” like those above, you can be sure her thoughts will eventually start moving toward the bedroom.

I’ll tell you my opinion on this, but I want you to tell me yours.

Whether she “wins” or not, you can offer a reward by treating her to a drink at the spot you chose.

Think of the first time you met this woman — did she make you laugh? Mention something about a sex addiction (you wish)?

Women like to feel you noticed THEM, not their boobs/butt/legs/whatever.

The feeling she gets when you talk about her personality is close to how you feel when you think about her smile: It’s a spark.

And while it might not start out sexual, it can quickly move that direction.

Trigger some good vibes by saying you enjoyed talking about her interests…and let her know you want to find out more on a date.