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The outdoor ceremony was overseen by a spiritual Shaman who bound their hands with rope, and the beach party reception on the West Sussex coast involved Ugandan dancers, bongo drums and an adult play-pen in the shape of a specially created net filled with plastic balls.

It was a fitting tribute to their unusual relationship and the groom’s unconventional outlook: just the previous year, he had changed his name by deed poll to Ned Rocknroll because, he felt, ‘people take themselves too seriously’.

Two years on – and, some might say, inevitably – the marriage has come to an amicable end and divorce papers have been signed.

Ned, 33, is now dating Hollywood actress Kate Winslet and they have been spotted in various locations from New Mexico to Chichester.

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