We are an insurance agency, focused to help and guide our customers to get the best coverage for their needs and risks.Showing them, the importance of be covered in the different events of their life and the importance to cover their loves.Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc. As far as the "why do women lie", you're right, they probably do. If you lie to me in your profile, I will assume that you lie about other things as well. Yes, I interpret "prefer not to say" under most headings as a "yes" ...
I don't understand people who can deny their kids or who can just walk away from them without doing everything they can to be a parent, and think it takes a special kind of lowlife to just deny them for no reason. (Oops, now I have to go listen to some bad eighties music.)I raaaan, I ran so far away...
If there's a scenerio that needs to be explained, it can be done in the paragraph section of the profile or to people whom that person chooses to share the story with in email... I'm proud of my kids and would kick either of their father's a$$es if they ever denied having them regardless of if they see them or not.
I personally don't think partial custody or even not seeing their children is a reason to put "no" when they do have children.
Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate. If any men can shed some light onto why this question wouldn't be answered honestly, I'd LOVE to know! JMHOLikely has something to do with the number of profiles put out by women that state quite clearly “Will not date a guy with children.” For many people children are instant deal breakers like smoking, being married, or doing drugs.
Okay...I don't get it...there are TWO guys on here that I know personally and under "do you have children" it says "prefer not to say" and "no".... If the guy is hoping to get into something long term, lying will likely backfire on him because it will come out eventually.
My_Secret_Life,"So you only know of one man who lied about having children. "If you read my post, I said I knew TWO men on here, one said 'prefer not say' and the other said 'no' when if act he DOES have two children. I didn't think the question referrerd to custody issues, situations, etc. I'm not sure why people lie, to me it's self-defeating.
Unless I am to have a relationship with someone - I could care less whether they have kids or not. I think its smart not to disclose if you have children. once contact is established, if the question means anything to you, feel free to ask why they've preferred not to say..."but guys just need to realize that if woman cant except it then they ain't worth it."I couldnt agree more,its a lie they are going to find out about if your looking for a real/longterm relationship I think its pretty stupid to lie about. Oh Lex, I'm howling now, I needed that I'm glad I wasn't the only one with that thought ...now, onto the question.
"Prefer not to say" usually means yes,whether it be drinking,drugs,smoking,married,kids..women lie about more than that..are a part of who we are..point in lying,about anything..all have our preferences.lets ALL be honest and then we can "screen" better who we are compatible with. If people choose to put 'prefer not to say' in any part of thier profile it's certainly thier perogative. You could be leured in by one unbenounced to you he's really after your kids. I think what Leanne was saying was it's none of any one of the billions of people who have access to your profile's business... it IS my business if you put "prefer not to say" beside marital status ..beside smokin,drugs,drinking,..i supposed to wait til were in a relationship (in your words)to find out if she is a married, chain smokin,coke snorting, alcoholic me lie for the same reasons that some woman lie,,,cause their affraid of scaring the woman off..i have had guys tell me and thought i would be scared off.guys just need to realize that if woman cant except it then they ain't worth it.
If you can't be honest about having kids, how can you be honest and expect people to believe you about the rest of who you are? Off topic The only lie I don't like is when a woman lies about a sense of humour. I disagree .IS my business if you put "prefer not to say" beside marital status ..beside smokin,drugs,drinking,..i supposed to wait til were in a relationship (in your words)to find out if she is a married, chain smokin,coke snorting, alcoholic and if you really want to know you can always ask if you have direct contact...
I opted to indicate "i have children"The person who opted to say "prefer not to say" may be in a similar situation as me.. Having children is part of who you are - regardless of whether you help raise them. Men lie so they can improve their prospective potential. On this site, there are lots of honest people, lots of 'white' lies and lots of outright lies. Unless I am to have a relationship with someone - I could care less whether they have kids or [email protected]
If someone lost a child and didn't feel comfortable explaining over and over about what happened, or if it was an issue of unknown paternity where the mother refused to have tests done, I could understand...I think if it were me dating someone who said they had no kids, and I found out they did and didn't say anything I'd end it immediately and walk away. me lie for the same reasons that some woman lie,,,cause their affraid of scaring the woman off..i have had guys tell me and thought i would be scared off.guys just need to realize that if woman cant except it then they ain't worth it. If people choose to put 'prefer not to say' in any part of thier profile it's certainly thier perogative.