He says he only ever went on a couple of times when he had had an awful day and that it made him feel better to exaggerate his life -a nice car, big house etc.

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I got married to the love of my life a year ago and a few weeks ago I walked in on my husband and saw something on the computer and asked him what it was, he panicked and shut the computer down.

After a huge argument he said he was looking at porn and crashed his computer because he knew I’d be upset.

We had our 1st proper massive fight in the whole 5 years we have been together and he promised he would never hurt me again and that I am his rock, his best friend, his soul mate and the love of his life and he was being inconsiderate of my feelings .

But Something just wasn’t feeling right in my mind and I knew he was lying about what he had been doing.

He is everything to me, my best friend, my husband, my life. He shut down all 3 profiles and his email account in front of me. A man just does not get physically sick like that due to emotions.

But when I read other peoples experiences of similar things online, they all say if men do that they can never be trusted and you should end things. If he did delete his profiles and email accounts, that is a positive step forward.

Not all married men who have gone on online dating services are bad, you don't have to end things.

Anyway to cut the story short I managed to reset a password to an email account I had found but never expected to find that he was registered to 3 online dating chat sites (which he had set up 1 month before we got married) He had even set his profile as single and even posted a picture of himself to someone (not a rude one but a photo all the same).

He had lots of emails from people but hadn’t ever opened any of them other than the odd one to accept a friend or request a friend.