hmmmm I guess you missed the memo about the hubby being bi sexual, you know that means he likes men, don't know if he's taking it up the ass or giving it up the ass, don't know don't care, but he likes men and where do you think he's going to find men? who the hell knows, perhaps sitting down with him and discussing it? The only way an open marriage works is if there is full disclosure of the activities of both partners.and if he's cheating, get your ass to the doctor and get checked, call your divorce lawyer and do the run forest runnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn Assuming you agreed you’d do all your looking together? I would like to say thank you for all your comments.We spoke and now he understand what I was upset about. I got to agree with TDH49 on this 1.this episode many timesan trust im pretty sure if he's on the chatline that much he's definatly meeting an hooking up as if you think you know where he is or says he's going "to the store" but comes back with nothing thats pretty obvious there but ya married/attached men will always find away to make alil time for a if things are open like you say they are should he tell you he's cruised the lines sure i suppose..

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Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing...

Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate. Possible reasons:maybe he feels you're not giving him enough attention;maybe you made him slightly insecure recently;maybe he feels the two of you aren't where he expected you both to be at this point in life;maybe he has a skeleton in the closet that's easier to discuss with strangers than you, but that's typically not healthy in a relationship. What is the difference between looking for someone on POF and looking for someone on a Gay Chat site? Once the facade that is your marriage crumble like stale crackers he will kick the closet door down and learn to be himself.

I guess I should give a bit of the background We are married both Bisexual and we are still on POF looking for threesomes. Here is the question: I found out my husband has been on a gay chat line. You already know he is bisexual.....already know ya'll are looking for a third....is there to be upset about? Sorry if that's a little harsh but I thing it's bang on.

He is going on this line daily sometimes many times a day and didn`t tell me. As evidenced by the fact that you didn't say he visited ONE straight or bisexual chat line. If you're asking us if you should be, I'm thinking you are.

When he knows you are not looking he can be himself without pretending, thus he spends all his spare time on gay chat lines. I have pretty black and white view of what cheating is.

Don't be shocked if you also find out he is doing a lot of connecting with these men behind your back. If he was doing this behind your back and not disclosing it, he's being deceitful.

You're both bi sexual, married in a open marriage, but he's been on a gay chat line? It's not necessarily cheating, but he's not being honest with you either.

should you be hurt yes an no but i think theres alot more skeletons that may fall out of the closet that you will be maybe shocked an or upset about..