But when it comes to whether she’ll see you as boyfriend material, thoughtfulness takes on a whole other meaning.It’s your ability to pay attention to her in unexpected ways — at unexpected times — because it’s genuinely in your heart to do it.

That in mind, here come the three secret “tests” that every woman uses (even if she doesn’t realize it) to determine whether you are boyfriend material: Test #1: Are You Present?

When it comes to first dates, most guys waste precious time and opportunities with great women by not actually “being there” at all.

As they sit across the table from a woman, most guys are busy planning, worrying about what to say and do next or worse — just not being interested. Until a man is confident and comfortable enough to be totally “present,” he’ll never connect with a woman in the moment, let alone for the future. It will be painfully obvious that he’s not hearing or caring about what she has to say. I know what you’re thinking…and you’re totally wrong.

About 99% of guys think that being “thoughtful” is about telling a woman how pretty she is, or buying her flowers, gifts or lavishing attention on her at obvious moments.

Every first date ends with a woman asking herself just one question: Is there any chance that you might be boyfriend material?

In this article, David De Angelo reveals the three secret “tests” every woman uses (usually without even realizing it) to see if you have “relationship potential.” When it comes to building great relationships with women, some guys have to learn the hard wayand I was one of them.

After a lot of dates with a lot ofwomen, I noticed two things: #1: It takes a special set of skills and insights to pass a woman’s tests and graduate from first-dater to “boyfriend material,” the kind of man she wants to share fulfilling, long-term intimacy with.

#2: The longer I continued to fail these tests, the more I started to feel like something wonderful was missing from my life — also known as having a great GIRLFRIEND.

if you’re thinking about her when she’s not around, don’t waste her time trying to become her boyfriend). Any high-wire artist will tell you that success is a delicate balancing act.

Yet most men fail miserably with great women right out of the gate by not behaving in a “balanced” way toward them…

going too far in one direction or another in what they say and do.