But the next day, he seemed kind of weird and distant. “It sounds like he's probably unsure of his feelings, or the feelings he experienced the night before may be something so new to him that it may be making him feel a little scared,” says Suzanne Oshima, a matchmaker and dating coach at Single in Stilettos.

“If every time you bring up the 'girlfriend' concept he shuts down, the worst thing you can do is to put more pressure on him,” Oshima says.

“It's important to find out the reason why he's averse to the idea of a girlfriend.” It’s likely that this guy is flat-out terrified of commitment or has been hurt in the past.

Threatening him with an ultimatum isn’t a good idea; give him time to see how wonderful you are!

We all know the guy (or guys) who plays uncool, perplexing and completely ridiculous mind games that leave you wondering, “WTF?!

” While it’s generally best to stay away from these mystifying men, sometimes it can be worth sticking it out with a confused cutie who may just need a little direction.

But when should you stick around, and when should you run out the door?

Here are seven mind games guys play and how to deal.

You had a fantastic time on your date—and he did, too. “You may never know for sure what's up with him,” says Marla Martenson, a matchmaker, author and motivational speaker.

At least, that’s what you thought until he suddenly dropped off the face of the planet. “It could be that he is seeing multiple girls, or he is just not that into you. Get out there and date like a guy.” If he still hasn’t responded to your texts after a week, stop dwelling on that dude and move on.