Most of the time, I was always the one to break up with a guy.I would find something wrong with them, I would get bored, or if I didn’t have the guts, I would give them plenty of excuses to break up with me.Another way of accomplishing the same goal is by getting myself into impossible or hopeless situations from the beginning, that way the relationship had no way of working.

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My family once joked with me that I only kept guys around for a 6 month to a year and a half rotation.

My mother even joined in the fun and told me not to bring someone home, unless I was “serious”, because I sure had a lot of people who were “friends”.

They claimed I had an emotional spring-cleaning of sorts, every few months.

I laughed and scoffed saying it wasn’t true and they were just teasing me.

But one day after another break up amidst the tears and confusion I realized they were right.

It made me sad every time they would joke, but I would never tell.

It bothered me and I tried to think back to every man that I ever dated or even spent time with, and I didn’t want to continue this apparent pattern.

I finally figured it out, and lovingly, or jokingly (depending on who I am talking to) refer to it as “The Lupus Dating Game”.

To understand the game, you need to first know the rules. Now this is a rule that pertains to most people, not just those who are dealing with an illness, but I think that because people who have been sick have dealt with so much sadness and disappointment in their lives, the mere thought of being hurt or sad scares them into running away from relationships and love. Just when things get good, I would rather mess it up myself and leave.

I feel like Lupus has taken most good things in my life away, so it is almost like I don’t even want to give it the chance of ruining a relationship.