In this article I would like to share how the words we THINK (negative reinforcement) can block us from the love we are seeking. Jim shows why Christian singles shouldn’t bad-mouth a previous relationship/partner. Dear Jim: Voices that block love – Part II In part one: Voices that block love – Part I, I described how the words of others can negatively block us from the love and joy we desire in our lives.

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Jim explains how words can drastically impact someone’s life and how our thinking can change our world view and block us from finding our desired love.

Here’s how to prevent the external voices from influencing our inner voice and how to reject negative reinforcement.

Voices that block love – Part III In part one: Voices that block love – Part I, I described how the words of others can negatively block us from the love and joy we desire in our lives.

In part two: Voices that block love – Part II, I shared how the words we utter can drastically impact our lives.

Some people who are part of our lives, such as family and friends, and even people we don’t know, can impact our lives negatively with hurtful words. Jim explaining how to get over these painful experience.

Dear Jim: Voices that block love – Part I The smell of coffee was permeating the air and the sound of voices was reaching into my senses as I slowly began to wake.It must have been early because it was not time to milk the cows, an every morning chore for me as a West Texas boy of 16.I sat down toward the back of the room so that I could have a good view of the room – you know – the single thing to do. ) There was an attractive woman sitting in the row in front of me conversing with several other women.The words of criticism that came from her mouth quickly turned me off.I do not think that she had any clue that her words were serving to reject others.(more…) What happens when we allow voices to hurt us and block the love in our lives?